Bottom line: a dating profile—your first impression—is “sell copy,” and you’re the product being marketed.
The trick for you as “Boy” to get the biggest bang for your buck is to optimize your pitch so it will best appeal to Girl’s brain with content that directly tags her where Cupid lives.
Which brings us to today's subject: the online dating profile.I've got a number of brilliant, beautiful, frank, funny friends, all capable of remarkable things, but writing an enticing online profile does not seem to be one of them. Some people offer their services in soup kitchens, some volunteer to shampoo crude oil off of sad, gooey pelicans; I rewrite online dating profiles.It's similar to how a good resume gets you noticed so you get an interview.The following excerpt from "The Boomer's Guide to Online Dating" will help get you started on the right foot.Quite a few of the happily coupled introverts in my book made their love connection online.
Online dating has a number of benefits for introverts." that you actually prefer Saturday mornings, you may be sending mixed signals, as Eggers pointed out to one person.And you probably don't want to be sending mixed signals to someone before you even start dating them.Yet, when it comes to online matters of the heart, finding “the one” often remains elusive.That’s because love, like the Internet, has a lingo and etiquette all its own.The days of looking down on online dating as a last resort for losers are past us.